Breastfeeding in Public: One Mum’s Story of Finding Calm

Breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world, yet it can feel anything but easy when you’re out and about. Many mums say that breastfeeding in public is one of the hardest parts of the journey — not because of the feeding itself, but because of everything else that comes with it: distraction, wriggling hands, the fear of flashing more than you meant to.

I know this feeling well.

A Busy Baby, A Flustered Mum

When my youngest son was a baby, he was what we affectionately called a nosy feeder. He’d latch on for a moment, then pull off to look around, grab at my clothes, or wave his arms about. At home it was fine — in public, it often meant I felt exposed and uncomfortable.

Instead of enjoying the closeness, I found myself rushing through feeds, worrying more about who might be watching than about connecting with my baby.

The Idea That Changed Everything

One day, out of sheer desperation, I thought: “If only his little hands had something safe to hold while he fed.”

That thought turned into the very first Yummikeys breastfeeding necklace. Made from stainless steel beads — completely safe to hold and chew — it gave my son something to play with while feeding.

The change was immediate. He stayed latched, I stayed calm, and breastfeeding in public stopped feeling like a performance. It became peaceful again.

Why a Breastfeeding Necklace Helps

Every mum and baby are different, but a simple feeding necklace can make a big difference:

• Keeps little hands busy and away from clothes, hair, and skin.

• Helps reduce distractions so baby stays latched for longer.

• Gives mums more comfort and confidence in public spaces.

• Creates a bonding ritual between mum and baby during feeds.

For me, it was the difference between dreading public feeds and actually enjoying them.

A Message for Other Mums

There isn’t one “right” way to feed in public. Some mums feel totally at ease, some use covers, some prefer quiet corners. What matters most is that you and your baby are comfortable.

If you’re struggling with a busy or distracted feeder, know that you’re not alone. Tools like a breastfeeding necklace, supportive clothing, or even just a reassuring smile from another mum can make all the difference.

From One Mum to Another

Yummikeys was born from this exact challenge — one mum’s attempt to make breastfeeding calmer and more confident. Today, our necklaces are used by mums everywhere for exactly that reason.

Because feeding your baby — wherever you are — should feel like a moment of connection, not a source of stress. 💕

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